You look good. But are you good? Are you as good as others tell you or see you? If you accept that you’re good only after you get a compliment from an alien who didn’t even know about you, I don’t have to highlight how big of a stupid you are!
Some people have this mental problem that until they get a compliment from a stranger they don’t believe themselves or don’t understand their real value. Imagine that they get what they want (Obviously, the so called sweet compliment) and only after that, they’re satisfied which are still empty words with no meaning.
You never know. People say what they feel and also what they don’t feel. You never know if what comes out of people is the truth or not. For the most part, it’s a lie said in a modern way. Because they know that it’s so easy to fool you by just attributing you a compliment because their one and only target is to appear to be nice.
Don’t expect. If you already know who you are, what you’re thinking, what you’re doing and what you value, you don’t need others’ approval to confirm who you are or to satisfy yourself. It’s enough that you know yourself, not what you want others to see you as, where you’re only pretending to appear in a certain way to get approval.
At the end of everything, we know that we’re not as good as we want to be but we always try and it’s better to stop pretending because true colours are always spontaneous. You never know when they will jump out!
Don’t let a stranger who obviously doesn’t even know you well, tell you how good you are and don’t be too satisfied by it either but let someone who knows you better tell how good you are. The fun thing is that the one who knows you will never say it because they’re honest. If they still don’t tell you that, it means you have more things to correct in yourself no matter how much you want a compliment!
Just be your natural, comfortable & real self!
Then only the most relevant things to you will chase you!
Silence! 